[JohnnyB]

So this is totally random, but I'm looking for some confirmation that there are some other guys out there like me.

Tonight, I was at the bar without my fiance (it's the start of Chinese New Year and she's home with her family). I was there in a group of about 25 people who I know, both men and women. There's this one girl, who is really hot, who has really been suggesting to me that she wants to hook up. Actually, she wrote me an email to say as much. She was out tonight, and all night long she was making moves on me. I'd be in the middle of conversation with somebody and I'd find that my fingers were being bitten and sucked on behind this person's back all of a sudden kind moves. I told her the deal: "I have been in long term relationships since I was 14. In a decade + of those relationships I have never cheated on a girl, even as far as kissing another girl, and I never plan to. There's no way that anything is happening unless it's a threesome with my girl and she is cool with that" (my girl is into threesomes, but not with this chick because she knows this girl has a thing for me). She told me she just wanted to hook up tonight, that she wanted to have sex, and that nobody would know afterwards (her and my girl have no mutual friends or other ways of it getting back to her). I repeatedly laid things out to her, and she said that she wanted me so bad she would wait for me and I could just have her any time. I tried to let her down as easily as possible while still saying "there's no way I'm betraying my girl". It was not comfortable, and not fun.
I have no doubt in my decision. I have strong values, and I am proud to stand by them because I believe in them. I'm just curious how many other guys out there think I made the right choice, or how many think I should have done it. Most of the guys I know would have done it, pretty much for sure. What does CP think?