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Originally Posted by DementedReality
well this is exactly the type of marriage i would be opposed to. its not a loving relationship. the women are simply finding a structre to allow them to coexist, but they didnt choose each other.
its not the same as 3 people creating a life long love bond. isnt that what marriage is supposed to about?
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But if you went up and asked these ladies they would tell you that they love each other deeply as sisters and don't know what they would do without each other. Again they don't see the power dynamic as the cause of the problem but, peoples behaviour within the group. They wouldn't tell you but, they would see their sister's behaviour or their husband's favoritism as the fault of something that should be working beautifully.
I don't believe you can have three people in an equal relationship. Humans are too competitive and needful.
On a related note: About 10 years ago Winston declared that women have sexual needs too and decreed that the men should regularly service all their wives and not just their favourite ones.
