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Originally Posted by First Lady
Most men are not comfortable (confident maybe) dating a tall woman.
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I was just talking about this one with a big group of friends!
Point 1) (Many) Tall women make it WAY too easy for tall men. I HATE HATE HATE when I meet a taller women and she instantly lights-up and makes it obvious that I have passed her height standard and that 'i could be the one'. Do you even like me!? It is like if I told a gold-digging women I was rich and she lights-up -- am I supposed to now be attracted? Tall girls need to play down how interested they are in the height and play up how interested they are in everything else. In short, I am always kind of suspicious and on guard when around a new tall women because I know she has sized me up as compatible based on one silly criteria.
Point 2) Shorter guys in my experience do not have a huge problem with taller women outright. But you take the fact that taller women are already chasing the even taller guys (that is a small group for them to chase) multiply by those same short guys belief that the taller girl is not interested in them (which is reinforced by the womens obsession with every tall guy that walks by) and then multiply by the women's own self-limiting-belief that she somehow neeeds a tall guy to 'fit in' and/or short guys wouldn't like her and it is not really a surprise tall women think 'men are not confident enough to deal with a tall women'.
Point 3) Because height/stature is at the top of women's lists for looks they assume it is the same rank on men's lists. Usually it is men who make this mistake of imprinting their expectations of women onto their own fragile psyches. Men can be shallow pricks for sure but I don't know any short "boob-guys" who turned down a tall chick with big boobs they had a chance with and I don't know of any short "ass-guys" that turned down a tall girl with a fantastic ass (etc etc etc). Height might matter to some guys but it is usually second or third (or much lower) on the list to their favorite physical features... you go through a guys list of hottest famous women and most are tall....
Just three thoughts though, nothing scientific.
Claeren.