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Originally Posted by sadora

Confidence is about knowing that you're great, NOT GREATER than anyone else. Don't underestimate the power of confidence, especially when it translates to dating because the last thing women want is a guy who is constantly seeking her approval, or constantly buying them things as a way to buy her affection.
I have a friend who always goes through this negative cycle with women simply because he never feels he as if he's good enough, a "wuss" mentality if you will, and he never gets the girls he wants with that mind frame. He's so afraid to be seen as an a'hole by women that he instead turns into this ultra sensitive, chick type hybrid. He's got a lot of "girl" friends that treat him just like one of the girls, but would never actually sleep with him. It's disgusting.
What he doesn't understand is that he can balance his respect for women, which is something that needs to be there, with having the confidence to be a man, which is ultimately what women want.

Haha I feel bad for those guys.. My buddy is spitting imagine of what you described.. Chicks don't respect guys who makes better doormats than anything else.