A stale 3 year old relationship doesn't sound like something that would be too much fun to be in. Realistically is there anything you're going to be able to do to freshen it up? There's nothing wrong if you don't feel like you want to put the effort into the relationship to save it, but there certainly is something wrong if you just plan on continuing a relationship with somebody when the feelings aren't the same on both ends. Your girlfriend is investing a large amount of resources in you (both time and emotion) and if you don't see it going anywhere over time then you could be really screwing her over.
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