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Originally Posted by The Ditch
She's probably hoping he is mega rich and she could sue him for child support payments or something, at least that is what I would be hoping.
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I doubt that's what she's looking for. She's an adult, not a child.
I've never met my biological father...he took off on my mom before I was born...and I've looked for and found him (still never met him though). It had nothing to do with money or years worth of presents or anything like that. It was only about meeting the other person who made me and to untimately find out why he never tried to contact me.
Where sperm doners are concerned though...I don't think the guys who donate are in it to help create a child, I think they're more about getting a little bit of money for a quick pull. I think their information should be kept confidential...I'd freak if someone had to come forward after 26 years and be like "I'm your kid." It's unfortunate, but it's a part of them that was never meant to be known, and to try to get the information after a person requested and understood that it would be kept confidential is not fair on the person who made the deposit.