I'm with 4X4. The sperm donor is not the child's father. I think it should be 100% up to the biological father whether or not he would allow contact with an individual hatched with his sperm. And, I'm sure, when Mr. Olivia Pratten Sr. signed up to spunk in a bottle for $50, he had no intention of meeting a 26 year old woman with identity issues and a searching-for-father complex.
The limp dude who raised you is your father, sweetie.
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