^ When you say you were doing everything that a b/f would do - did that include physical benefits? There's a world of difference b/t the two...
And, it may sound harsh and chauvenistic, but women don't like being treated like goddesses - don't put them up on some pedestal - make them work to get you - you have to grow a pair, stop trying to be friends with someone - when you meet a girl tell youself then "I'm going to fata this girl" and do it, or live with being the "good, sweet friend" and never get anything out of it in terms of relationships.
From what it sounds like you did all the shinguard like going to see shinguardty sappy movies with her and then you get nothing in return - wouldn't you rather put up with some of that shinguard, knowing you'll get some good action later that night? Friends -> lovers is not an easy transition and usually fails. fata this bitch, chalk it up to experience and move on... and don't try the whole Friends thing first!
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