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Originally Posted by OilersBaby

well my friend's husband is also one of his best friends...and she decided she wanted a couple's shower...so he didnt want to mess up a friendship over a baby shower, so he put a cap on it, but she is being soooooo demanding, some of it isnt even about money, its about how we do things.

And yes, the thrower of the shower pays for it...except when she decided (actually demanded) that she wanted to have Meditarranean food from this fancy restaurant in SF (50ish people are coming to this shower) and the bill was going to be 670 for food, we told her we couldnt afford that part, because we've already spent like 400 on cake, decorations, invites, etc. So they are paying for the food, we paid for everything else.

This shower is Sunday and I still get daily emails like "did you get the guestbook, i want to make sure my guests are able to sign in".

Im like dude...its not a wedding reception! Frustrating.

$670 for food seems a bit excessive. Maybe she's hoping that the more that is spent for the party the more expensive the baby gifts! Incredible.