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Originally posted by Hack&Lube@May 3 2005, 11:33 AM
I think you gotta identify what the source of the stress is first.
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done, following quote kinda touches on the subject
<!--QuoteBegin-Cheese@May 3 2005, 11:40 AM
sex is good....
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incredibly long story short:
Girl I like rejects me after months of hanging out, flirting, building up the courage to ask out etc.
No biggie, not the first time won't be the last. Heartbroke yes, but I can handle it.
Girl leaves school for the summer, immediately meets NEW guy (not like an old friend) and starts dating.
I know it's a new guy as her best friend (who grew up with her) has no clue who this guy is.
I find out through the grapevine, and am left thinking, who the hell is this? Less than two weeks? WTF?
Also of note, she's told me stuff like "you're my knight in shining armour" and "I don't know how I would have gotten through the school year without you" "you're my favourite friend, thanks for everything" through helping her, being with her, easing stress etc.
I feel like I've been kicked in the nads. [/b][/quote]
I'll make this easy for you. (Keep in mind this is all my opinion)
Step 1) Go out, get totally shinguard faced, and pick up the first thing that gives you any kind of response from poor ass lines like "hey baby nice T**s".
Rebound? Of course it is. Does it matter? Not really, and you'll feel better when you do it. (At least I do, but I'm a bit of a man whore).
Step 2) Stop talking to this chick who is treating you like fotze's "dick in a glass tube". You're plan B, plain and simple. That or come to terms that you'll never hook up unless she is at the end of the line, and will probably never be more than a friend. If you want an example of this go see the movie Forrest Gump.
Step 3) Once you start acting like a dick, she'll be interested. Guranteed. I don't know why women are like this, but 99.99999% of them are when it comes to situations like yours. If at this point the opportunity to do anything romantically presents itself, it's up to you how to proceed, but don't expect anything afterwards. She won't be.
I feel for ya though, I've seen this a lot in my time.....although never really to me, I'm an insensitive ****** destined to a life of 2 month relationships. But hey, it's your thread not mine!