I'm a year-plus behind the OP's parents (we celebrate 30 years in March) and as someone who is in a similar situation to these parents, I don't require much from my kids. The trip would have been a great idea, if not maybe a bit much, however that won't work. On our last anniversary we took our kids to Florida and they took us out to dinner at Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville and it was exactly the right gift. I recommend a fairly nice dinner out with anyone of the immediate family who can be there. If they're like me, that's about perfect. We don't want our kids who don't have lots of money spending it on us who have lots. And (for the person who asked once if I share with members here), no I don't. Whatever I don't spend will be left for Oiler fans.
