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Originally Posted by icarus
Go for it. It shouldn't be an issue for a guy who is truly interested in you. It is not ideal, I wouldn't want my girlfriend doing it without a specific financial endgame in sight (i.e. the new car), but it doesn't compromise who you are. It does NOT make you a hooker.
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Thank you Icarus. I actually love men,love talking to them..and I don't think this would send me down some sort of slippery slope. That would have already happened. I hated when my ex-boyfriend spent "private time" with his Victoria's Secret catalog collection etc, and that is a good part of what broke us up. It's like there's a fine line and you just know when you cross it. I didn't want to be a huge hypocrite here. The thought of doing this never occurred to me until I met someone who does it,and also saw Spike Lee's movie " Girl 6 " which puts a pretty humorous spin on it although she gets dumped by her boyfriend for being a "phone 'ho"