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Originally Posted by BBQorMILDEW
i don't miss everything about being single. I just miss taking off for a weekend with my buddies without having to check in with the "boss" to see if it's all right..
If im the only one who has ever felt this way then that's great, but i just want to know what pushed your relationship from "just another" to the end all be all...
I am thinking about this way too much..
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"checking in" is called "respecting the person you're with enough to let her know what's going on so she doesn't assume you're dead in an alley/in jail/running to mexico with some other woman". Part and parcel of being in a relationship is letting the other person know what's going on in your life. In a good relationship, one partner doesn't hold the other partner back when they want to do something that's important to them. If she's saying no, there's a reason, and it's probably something you did.
The relationship goes to the "be all end all" when you don't mind asking if you can do something....and when you don't necessarily miss being single b/c you know you've got a better thing.