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Originally Posted by missdpuck
Also I'll never forget my ex-boyfriends porn stash!!! I'm always being told not to let that upset me, boys will be boys... it is a difficult issue for me. In other words...I guess I can't avoid being vulgar here...I'm supposed to think it's just fine for my boyfriend to satisfy himself while looking at pictures of other women. This is nothing against you but there seems to be a double standard here again! Also why do you work any job....love or money..this is money!!!!!
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I think we're talking about completely different things here. Yes, there may be a bit of a double standard, but that's because men and women are different creatures. I doubt there are many phone sex lines out there with men talking sexy for women while they get off, but the opposite obviously exists.
Dudes looking at porn is not only completely standard, but completely normal as well. I can even kind of understand why a man would phone a sex line - it's not for me, but I can see it. They're doing it because it gets them off... is the girl on the other end of the phone sex line doing it because it gets her off or for her pleasure? No, they're probably not enjoying themselves at all, they're just going through it because it's their job.
I'm more talking about what's going on in the mind of a girl that wants to do this for guys. Yeah, OK, there's great money in it ... I bet there is great money in stripping too and I wouldn't date a stripper either. Why do this when there are many other far more respectable / less disgusting and demeaning jobs available? I can understand the monetary attraction for girls to want to do this and I really can't blame them for taking advantage of horny guys, but I don't think I'd be OK with dating a girl who does it.