It depends on if any of these people are people where it would really mean a lot to your mother for them to be there. Find out if, honestly, there's anyone in this group who your mother really, really wants to be there. If they're all just routine distant family relations and friends, then meh. If there's a really special guest or two, then I'd say it's worth a bit more effort to find out if they're going to be there. But I still wouldn't book them food unless you have a 70% indication that they're going to be there.
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