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Originally Posted by transplant99
ENTIRELY depends on WHY she carries that much weight...does it not?
Also...Im wondering from those of you who claim to be "just being honest" in your replies....if/when you get married and you have a child or your wife gets an illness that puts some pounds on, or as you AGE and your wife begins to get heavy (almost inevitable to some degree) are you just going to cut bait and leave? I mean she certainly wont be as "attractive" as she once was, nor will you for that matter, at some point.
So what then?
Just curious.
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I'd be happy to be proven wrong here, but I can't think of a common situation where someone should ever end up weight 300lbs with no control over it. I don't intend to let it happen to myself, I would hope the same for my wife. I will want to stay healthy for my family so that I don't need extra medical attention and face the possiblity of an early death, all serious considerations when you are 300lbs (especially if you are a woman).
I'm also not dumb enough to think that whoever I end up with will look the same until the day we die, which is why all of the other stuff is so very important as well. No matter how skinny you are, you probably won't look so hot in a 2 piece when you're 65.
It's also a fairly certain thing that a woman will put on a bit of weight as she ages and after child birth. You can carry a little extra and still be a healthy person.