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[quote=Bring_Back_Shantz;1413108]Okay I'll address these points 1 by 1.

1) But they are certainly around, so the point stands, would you date someone that big, or does your threshold stop at 300 lbs?

If someone asked me i'd go. Why not? Gives me a chance to met someone else. And it certainly doesn't mean going steady or anything like that. How else are you going to find out about what a person is like.

3) That's good too. I didn't specify why my hypothetical lady had no teeth, maybe she was in a car accident, maybe it's the same case as yours. You seem to be implying that I'm making judgements on the validity of someone as a person based on their looks. That's a totally different topic and one you'll likely not get much arguement on, the point is that you claimed to not classify people in to degrees of physical attractiveness, why she has no teeth is irrelvant to if you find teen attracive or not.

Fair enough. Your further explanation helped me to understand why you made that comment.

4)You claim to not classify degrees of physical attractiveness, but this comment leads me to believe you do. What do you mean by Chemical attracation? If you mean shared interests, having a good time, the kind of things a relationship is based on then of course not having that doesn't mean they're ugly. Every girl I've ever broken up with was because we didn't have those things, and not one of them was ugly. If you mean physical attractiveness I'll agree with that too, as there are a lot of good looking girls that just don't do it for me for some reason or another. But if that is what you mean then you just sunk your own ship.

When i say chemical attraction yeah it's physical attraction. If the person has values, morals, interests, or a personality that doesn't agree with me there won't be any future.

5)Okay, you've established that you're a better person than me, good for you. But what about if you're looking for a longstanding relationship, or marriage. Sex should be a part of that, even if you don't want it, what if she does, and if you don't want to have sex with someone because you don't find them physically attractive then why bother with a romantic relationship? The sex question is valid.

I'm not a better person than you. And nor did i say sex i didn't want to have sex with someone. I just don't believe in taking a gal out on a date and expecting to get laid later that night. That's not what i expect. I would hope the gal i'm dating would have a little respect for her body rather than running off to her friends to brag about her latest conquest. I would hope the sex would be out of love for the person and after the 2 people had a chance to get to know each other. It's the one night stands and wham bam thank you maam's that i disagree with.