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MaDMaN_26 · 08-25-2008, 03:26 PM

meh, I wouldn't let it rent space in your head.

I agree its not very fair to judge people by their looks, often you'll miss some of the funnest and brightest ones out there if you do... not always but you never know. That said not very many of us don't make those judgments internally when we meet people whether we want to or not, everyone harshing on you for simply writing down the same judgment they probably would have made is not very fair either and is simply throwing another judgment of a different kind right back at you... hypocrites. All people make judgements, very few have the ability to compartimentalize it and turely behave as if they didn't... the fact that you reacted and then wrote it down for us to read, doesn't make you a bad person just honest.

There could be so many reasons he is with this girl... maybe he does not care about physical beauty or just loves big girls or he knocked her up and they have a kid and he is doing the honorable thing for now... or maybe he's a scum bag with a shiny outside, and purposely picked a girl with low self esteem and self worth so he could be an abusive azzhole and cheat on her at will...

move on...

08-25-2008, 03:26 PM	#40
MaDMaN_26 Powerplay Quarterback Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Calgary Exp:	meh, I wouldn't let it rent space in your head. I agree its not very fair to judge people by their looks, often you'll miss some of the funnest and brightest ones out there if you do... not always but you never know. That said not very many of us don't make those judgments internally when we meet people whether we want to or not, everyone harshing on you for simply writing down the same judgment they probably would have made is not very fair either and is simply throwing another judgment of a different kind right back at you... hypocrites. All people make judgements, very few have the ability to compartimentalize it and turely behave as if they didn't... the fact that you reacted and then wrote it down for us to read, doesn't make you a bad person just honest. There could be so many reasons he is with this girl... maybe he does not care about physical beauty or just loves big girls or he knocked her up and they have a kid and he is doing the honorable thing for now... or maybe he's a scum bag with a shiny outside, and purposely picked a girl with low self esteem and self worth so he could be an abusive azzhole and cheat on her at will... move on... __________________ ______________________________________________ http://openmedia.ca/switch Last edited by MaDMaN_26; 08-25-2008 at 03:28 PM.