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Originally Posted by CaptainCrunch

I'm going to give two answers. The first one thats the stock one, the second thats the cro-magnum one.

Right now she's enabling him, whether its uncertainty about the future with this guy controlling the money, cars etc, and her being unwilling to make a break it allows him to continue the behavior. In terms of calling the cops etc, there's not much that they can do if she's not willing to spill the beans press charges and leave with them. she has to be willing to step off of that ledge. By you giving her that free room offer, which is great, and her returning to him, it really puts her in further jeapordy, because his wrath when she gets home is going to be frightening. She has to be willing to run, and willing to press charges get a restraining order etc.

As a son and a brother, in the Cromagnum sense, do you know if her father is in the same area or if she has a brother, because if you know about this you should do a call on the side, because frankly as a brother, if I found out that my sister, or any family member was getting abused, I'd be having a chat with the scum bag, because its pretty hard to hit somebody when your arms have been run through a band saw.

Just my 2 cents.

Unfortunately her father has passed away and she has an older sister who lives in St Louis (we're in San Jose). Her mom lives in one of the Dakotas. Im like the only person she talks to outside work. Don wont allow her to have any friends. HORRIBLE. When she talks to me she tells him its because of work ..