[Sylvanfan]

When I was one of these young single folks I thought....why don't married people shag every day. Now that I'm married I think...why are these people so obsessed with sex?

To have two kids though and do it every day, you'd need to put some planning into it, and be pretty committed, and get creative. You can't schedule when you're kids are sick when you're sick, when you're tired, if someone close to you passes away etc...If it was that easy, they would have been able to duplicate it the next year. After about 150 straight days...they probably started doing it out of obligation so as not to say well we made it 300 days but than something happened.

Still I think that people in married life maybe get a bit too caught up in the routine at times and couples stop talking, and get caught up trying to make it work. In the end I still believe people have to be willing to put themself first and their partner second to make any marriage happy. Too many people forget about themselves after kids come along and want to put them first. I'm not about neglecting your kids or anything that extreme, but I think that if you can't treat yourself good, than you won't be able to do the same thing for your kids either because you're so used to not being happy, but thinking you are that you'll think your kids are happy when they aren't.