[FireFly]

I'm going to say something different here because while I don't think I've ever called a guy at 4AM to pick me up, when I was younger, I had a similar problem... Although I didn't always pick losers, I really only ever had two.

Yes, she does have issues. No, you won't be able to break her of her codependancy on males, (at least not easily). However, you CAN be her friend if she needs one and you want to be one for her.

First off, based on what you've said about her father, she's looking for love. However, the only times she's ever been shown love from a male, are probably when she has sex with them. Clearly, even her father didn't show her love, and on top of that, was an ass. So she's always going to be looking for love from men in a sexual manner which explains why she doesn't take breaks.

Being her friend and showing her a friendship sort of love, if that's what you're willing to do, will help her get over that. Does she have any brothers? How do they treat her? If she had a male in her life that treated her with respect without having a sexual relationship with her, it would probably help a lot. You said she moved here and you started dating fairly quickly? Does she have many friends in town? People who love her just for her? You know her well if it's only been since January and you were with her for two years. Does she need a friend? Can you be her friend? Sounds to me like she really hasn't had anyone she can rely on...

Anyway, yes she's got issues. If you want to help her, make it VERY CLEAR that you will only be her friend and that would probably help. Just don't get sucked in too far. There's a line, you should know where to draw it.