I have been involved with a guy on and off for about.. 8 years. After moving in with him and finally realizing just how unhappy I was being with him, and how well he had me almost brain washed into being something I was not we broke it off.
For the last 4 months I've been getting nothing but manipulation from him trying to convince me this is the biggest mistake of my life.
He's tried it all.. guilt trips, aggressiveness, etc. Anything he says I have to keep telling myself is manipulation, no matter how bad it makes me feel.
I've been strong, at most time and not let him back in, but it has been hard.
Point of story: Don't put up with her contacting you, if she knows you are going to help her out once then she is going to continue contacting you for less severe things until you get sucked back in. (From my experience anyways)
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