Geezus, looks like I picked a good topic for a little Wednesday afternoon discussion ahahahaa.
Basically, what I'm getting from the group is:
a) take her back
b) she's definitely NOT using me
c) hookers and blow will be a part of my near future
In all seriousness, thanks for the replies everyone. I'm not really interested in getting back with her so I'm not too worried about looking foolish or "getting played" because quite frankly I only picked her up because she was in hysterics and it scared the crap out of me when she called at such a random time. I definitely wouldn't make a habit of it.
It is definitely tough to just walk away from someone who you know you could help and who you care for (not by getting back together but by maybe convincing her somehow to get some counselling) but I can see it's obviously the smartest thing to do. Definitely tough to see this other side of someone tho after two years of great memories. oh well, chalk it up as a learning lesson.
on a sidenote: my ex was in fact buzzards wife! maybe we should just lock this up before things get nasty....