Have to agree with all the responses in this thread. I know its hard, I dated a girl before who had a similar history. I just felt bad for her, she's a very nice person who deserves someone good, but makes horrible choices. Even thinking about it now, the thought of her currently with some deadbeet taking advantage of her right now, which honestly wouldnt surprise me(I have no contact with her so I have no idea if this is the case) makes me sick, and feel very bad for her.
But really, what can you do? As you mentioned before, she's stubborn and won't listen. Nor will she ever. You can care and feel bad for them and hope for the best for their future, but at the end of the day its really up to them. Getting/staying involved is only going to not only hurt you, but affect future relationships for yourself with others. Seriously man, you just gotta move on and let her make her own choices, unfortunately.
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