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J pold · 03-19-2008, 02:05 PM

Well first off you can stop her from being co-dependent on you

When she calls you asking for her help just refuse it, I know its hard when you think she might be in trouble but in that example you used you could have told her to grab a cab as there are tons on 17th ave any hour of the night

I know it’s hard to go through a break up but the reality is she is your ex

You don’t owe a thing to her, especially when she has a another guy in her life, seems to me that you have become the “nice guy” that she calls when she needs help but she will probably end up back in the arms of another abusive guy no matter what you say or do

Try taking all the energy and time you spend worrying about her and her problems and spend it on yourself, its pretty obvious you are still shaken up form the break up which is totally normal

You can’t go around solving everyone’s problem even if you have feelings for them

It seems that she had moved on, now it’s your turn

03-19-2008, 02:05 PM	#2
J pold Franchise Player Join Date: May 2004 Exp:	Well first off you can stop her from being co-dependent on you When she calls you asking for her help just refuse it, I know its hard when you think she might be in trouble but in that example you used you could have told her to grab a cab as there are tons on 17th ave any hour of the night I know it’s hard to go through a break up but the reality is she is your ex You don’t owe a thing to her, especially when she has a another guy in her life, seems to me that you have become the “nice guy” that she calls when she needs help but she will probably end up back in the arms of another abusive guy no matter what you say or do Try taking all the energy and time you spend worrying about her and her problems and spend it on yourself, its pretty obvious you are still shaken up form the break up which is totally normal You can’t go around solving everyone’s problem even if you have feelings for them It seems that she had moved on, now it’s your turn Last edited by J pold; 03-19-2008 at 02:32 PM.