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Originally Posted by redforever
I know you are looking for reasons why your father behaves like he does. Please realize, that period of time was obviously a living he..ll for your father. Is it worth it for you to get your answers knowing full well that it might sink him further into he..ll?
Some people simply can not cope except by locking that he..ll up and they don't want to give the key to open that door to anyone.
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It turned him into a drunk for a good portion of his life, I am very well aware of what it did to him. However, he died 4 years ago to lung cancer, so my motivation is not affected by how he will feel but rather what happened to him while he was there that did it to him.