I was having a rather bad year once ... in May of that year my first wife and I separated, in June I found out she had been screwing around with my so-called best friend, in September I had to have my cat put to sleep, and in October I rolled and totalled a car I'd only owned for two weeks, breaking my neck in three places during the process. It was at that moment, when I woke up in the ditch after rolling my car, that I felt a great sense of relief and happiness. I knew that my life has just bottomed out and things could only improve from that point. And sure enough, they did. During the two months I spent in hospital in traction recovering from my neck injuries, I met an RN who became my second wife. We've been happily married for over 20 years now. Had I not discovered how miserable life could be before meeting her, I probably wouldn't appreciate her as much as I do or be as happy as I am. So ya, a little misery is good for lending perspective. Everything is relative.
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