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Originally Posted by Flameschick
I don't get the concept of "serious" dating or monogamy. Myself and most of my girl friends have 2-3 guys that we "see" and we flip through them depending on what mood we're in: 1 guy to escort us to a function; another for nooky; another to just chill with, etc. Why latch on to one guy? It's like buying a car and holding on to it when you know a newer and better model is going to come out next year. You have fun with it, then dump it or exchange it and move on when something better comes along.
Plus, it's inevitable that your gf/bf/husband/wife cheats or at least is in the stage before that happens where she or he finds herself/himself attracted to someone else and wishes she/he were with that person. Don't think they should be penalized for that. It's human nature to be curious and experiment. The only people who view seeing more than one person as immoral are those who have a rather naive pristine view of what a relationship should entail and take the concept way too seriously. That's my early-to-mid 20's Gen-Y take on things anyway.
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This reminds me of a song actually...
However, what if you find a guy you want to escort you, chill with and have nooky with? That's the idea of a relationship... It's inevitable that eyes wander, that doesn't mean you have to cheat. It's not a Gen-Y thing, it's pessimistic.
Back to the topic at hand though... I'd rather cook a meal together and chill on the couch with a bottle of wine and a movie than 'get' anything for Valentine's Day. Flowers are best when they're least expected.