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Originally Posted by arloiginla
Yeah to be honest, I didn't think it would be that easy but once I realized the fact that I was able to put aside my feelings for 4 years without saying anything, it shouldn't be too hard to put them aside forever. When you think about it, nothing's changed. I didn't have her before and I don't have her now.
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Well... you're right, nothing's changed... you're still hanging out with a girl you (used to?) like. Doesn't that feel wierd? Are you honestly cool with any guy she ever goes out with? You're not jealous when they're together and she's macking him, not you?
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Only difference is that I'm also now without the "what if" and without regrets for finally having asked.
So yeah, it feels great. You can't make someone want you (other than whipping the junk out, apparently). You can control how you decide to let it affect you, so may as well make the best of it and move on.
There's a taco out there for every fish stick 
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Wow... you have a super-positive attitude. Good for you. I couldn't imagine spending time with a girl I really liked who rejected me and stay 'just friends'. I thought that only happened in movies...
