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Old 01-18-2008, 04:45 PM   #251
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Originally Posted by Agamemnon View Post
Really? You can honestly be perfectly platonic friends with this chick you've liked for a long time who rejected you and is with other guys? You're stronger than I my friend, that sounds like a rough setup for you. I suppose as long as you don't feel badly about it (and by badly, I mean continuing feelings for her), then go nuts. I'd distance myself completely and go after new women, but I'm a weak, weak man.
Yeah to be honest, I didn't think it would be that easy but once I realized the fact that I was able to put aside my feelings for 4 years without saying anything, it shouldn't be too hard to put them aside forever. When you think about it, nothing's changed. I didn't have her before and I don't have her now. Only difference is that I'm also now without the "what if" and without regrets for finally having asked.
So yeah, it feels great. You can't make someone want you (other than whipping the junk out, apparently). You can control how you decide to let it affect you, so may as well make the best of it and move on.
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