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Originally Posted by Inferno
So my question is should I try and look for someone right away since we never were together or should I take some time for this to sink in and wait for the cheated feeling I have to go away?
Most guys would probably just shrug it off and move on but this is 10.5 years worth of feelings I'm trying to let go of.
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First of all, those guys who would shrug off their emotions invariably end up - or already are - s. If she meant that much to you, let yourself hurt - don't wallow in it - but allow yourself to feel it. It might suck for months and months and months, but it will probably get better.
And, to answer the first part second, it's been my experience that those people you find when you're 'out looking' aren't really worthwhile. It's the people you meet when you're not looking at all that turn out to be the ones that you want to know.