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Cowboy89 · 01-10-2008, 01:34 PM

Well all I have to say is that if you act around a woman like she's a scarce resource, then she's going to wonder what's wrong with you and not desire you. It's the reason why gold costs $900 an ounce, many things can look just as pretty, but it's difficult to find and produce. She even mentioned to you that she sensed that your sense of self and overall mood on life were in someway attached to your interactions with her. Focus on that!

The law of attraction works the same as selling something to someone. If you appear like she's your only potential buyer, subconsciously she can only assume that there's a good reason why you don't have other options. Whether it be the case or not. You have to appear to be a scarce commodity that if she doesn't take action now you could be 'sold out' any day. You have to appear to be someone who can make her feel good whenever she's around you.

Of course the key to having a meaningful relationship with someone you attract is to actually live up to the 'product you were selling.' The best technique I've ever heard to do this effectively is to be yourself to the best of your ability. Being comfortable in your own skin is the only way to appear and actually be the 'real deal.' You can fake who you are and what you're about to initially attract, but once she knows it's snake oil, she'll leave. If you don't know who you are or what you're about, figure that out first before trying to find anyone else. Also once you know what you are, what you're about, and what you want, don't settle for anything less. That means being quick to turf the women you meet that fall below what you're looking for. Afterall confident self-aware guys don't settle for fear of not finding any better.

You cannot after screwing up, go back and try again with the same woman because despite your personal growth, subconsciously she'll still remember what you once were and it'll dwell over anything new. Also it's cruel and unusual punishment for you to continue trying to ram a cube into a circle hole any longer. It's been 10.5 years. That's a frickin decade dude!

01-10-2008, 01:34 PM	#16
Cowboy89 Franchise Player Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Calgary AB Exp:	Well all I have to say is that if you act around a woman like she's a scarce resource, then she's going to wonder what's wrong with you and not desire you. It's the reason why gold costs $900 an ounce, many things can look just as pretty, but it's difficult to find and produce. She even mentioned to you that she sensed that your sense of self and overall mood on life were in someway attached to your interactions with her. Focus on that! The law of attraction works the same as selling something to someone. If you appear like she's your only potential buyer, subconsciously she can only assume that there's a good reason why you don't have other options. Whether it be the case or not. You have to appear to be a scarce commodity that if she doesn't take action now you could be 'sold out' any day. You have to appear to be someone who can make her feel good whenever she's around you. Of course the key to having a meaningful relationship with someone you attract is to actually live up to the 'product you were selling.' The best technique I've ever heard to do this effectively is to be yourself to the best of your ability. Being comfortable in your own skin is the only way to appear and actually be the 'real deal.' You can fake who you are and what you're about to initially attract, but once she knows it's snake oil, she'll leave. If you don't know who you are or what you're about, figure that out first before trying to find anyone else. Also once you know what you are, what you're about, and what you want, don't settle for anything less. That means being quick to turf the women you meet that fall below what you're looking for. Afterall confident self-aware guys don't settle for fear of not finding any better. You cannot after screwing up, go back and try again with the same woman because despite your personal growth, subconsciously she'll still remember what you once were and it'll dwell over anything new. Also it's cruel and unusual punishment for you to continue trying to ram a cube into a circle hole any longer. It's been 10.5 years. That's a frickin decade dude!