I would just like to clear up my view points on this matter about trust and such as it seems many people don’t understand it, yes I think you should trust the person you are with and that if you feel you can’t you should just get it out…
But what is more important is being able to trust yourself in a situation like this. To me it is important to believe that you are the best man for your girlfriend and that no other guy out there could do a better job than you. If my girlfriend where to say the same thing to me I wouldn’t have a problem because without even having met this other guy I know that I am better than him for her
I know a lot of people are going to think this idea is both arrogant and ignorant and in a way it kind of is. But here is the thing if I am wrong and my girlfriend cheats on me it’s not her fault its mine. It’s that same old saying…that no women has ever cheated on a man, men fail women. Women are loving people and if you allow them, and love them enough in return they don’t have a reason to find love from other sources.
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