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Originally Posted by rubecube
Okay so I talked to her about it last night and just basically said that I wasn't comfortable with it but that I trusted her enough that I wasn't going to stop her. I also let her know that I was disappoitned that she din't ask me how I felt about it
before making the plans.
She apologized for that part and said the reason she didn't think about it is because she doesn't think about the other guy in that light and that he didn't either. I told her I'd at least like to meet the guy before he stayed with her. She understood that and also said she'd have him stay in a hotel if I was stilll uncomfortable.
She said something that didn't really help her cause (keep in mind they've only fooled around - no actual intercoursE), "He could've had me lots of times before when I did like him but he never made a move." I don't understand why she thinks I like hearing that kind of thing.
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Oh, well that is good that you discussed it. Makes my massive post seem rather pointless now, lol.
Are you going to take her up on that and have him stay in a hotel... if you don't mind my asking?
Yeah, I don't know why she would say that to you. She's trying to build trust with you...