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Originally Posted by Eastern Girl
She isn't asking for permission, cause quite frankly, she doesn't need it (and neither would he if it were reversed). She is asking for his opinion. He should give it and leave it at that. She'll make a decision, hopefully, taking his thoughts into consideration. If she decides to let the friend stay there regardless of his feelings, then he needs to figure out how much that bothers him and whether he wants to move on or stay.
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Which is what kind of bothered me in the first place. She didn't really ask how I felt or what I would think, she just sort of announced it and then was shocked when I wasn't exactly thrilled about it. I didn't get enraged and start yelling, I just told her that I didn't really like the idea of her spending the night under the same roof has a guy she used to fool around with.