Who trusts somebody after two months? Honestly, i have been with my girlfriend for a couple years, and when we met she had had quite a bit more experience then i did.
You think i felt really comfortable and warm inside when she was going to go get drunk with people i didn't know, and there would be a guy she had fooled around with multiple times? Especially after we had only been dating a couple months?
Anyways, think about any serious relationship you've ever seen in your life(I realize this relationship is only two months in) . Are any people in these relationships having people they fooled around with staying at there place? Even occasionally?
Now two months in can be different. You still have your old habits. She may have already made these plans and can't really back out. But you sure don't have to trust her completely, especially with the situation shes going to be in.
Tell her the truth, and if you get in a fight so be it.
I love all the people saying "don't say anything, if your confident she'll like you more." Yah, as if him saying something will make him appear less attractive to her. If anything it will actually make her think about how this is affecting you. And if it does make you appear less attractive? Then it wasn't worth your time anyways.
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