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Originally Posted by RougeUnderoos
If I was in the same situation (as the girl) and I had an old female friend of mine coming to stay the night on the couch and a woman I'd been dating for 2 months told me how things were going to be, I'd tell her to get lost.
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I can't agree with you there - I'd never make the offer in the first place. 2 months is not long enough to establish that level of trust. If my friend really needed a place to stay, I'd either spring for a hotel for her, or ask my gf if I could stay with her so my friend could use my place. Anything else is showing disrespect for the relationship by assuming I can just act any old way I please towards other women - and ESPECIALLY a woman I already have "fooled around" with.
There is nothing wrong with establishing boundaries by telling someone exactly how your feel. In this case, obviously there is an issue, and the issue needs to be addressed, not just "oh well it really bothers me but I'm just going to give in and hope all is for the best".