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zukes · 01-02-2008, 01:37 PM

I had this exact situation with a girl I was dating about 8 years ago. She had a two bedroom apartment and had beds in both. She explained it as her and her boyfriend lived there when they both went to school together. They had broken up and he moved back to where they were from after school. It had been a couple years since he lived there and she had a job in London.

She would "run into him" when she would go home to see her family but I didn't really think much of that. He didn't have any of his stuff there or anything so I had no reason to. The only strange thing was that the phone was still in this guy's name as was the cable. She changed the cable since I was pretty much living with her and added me as able to change things on it.

So one time, near Christmas she mentions that this dude is coming down because he has to get his school records and is staying the night in his old room. I flipped out, but as was said here, she was asking for approval, not permission.

He stayed the night and she managed to even give me a call that night to ease my fears.

So, some time goes by and we are still pretty much living together except when she'd go home to see her family for a weekend or two a month. One day, I head there in the morning (she worked nights) and was going to surprise her, I use my key and let myself in just as the answering machine comes on and it's this dude and the message went something like this, "Hey honey, it's been a long couple of weeks, can't wait to see you this weekend for our 7th anniversary"

I got out of there, left the key, left the place unlocked and called and soon as I got home and left a message that started, "Hey honey, it's been a long couple weeks" in question form. Then I ranted and raved like a lunatic for a couple minutes about her wasting almost two years of my life.

My advice, nothing good can come from this situation, get out. Well I shouldn't say nothing good, the sex was fantastic. This chick was sex crazed, but I guess that was was all I was there for, sex, and to have a dude around the apartment.

01-02-2008, 01:37 PM	#152
zukes Nostradamus Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: London Ont. Exp:	I had this exact situation with a girl I was dating about 8 years ago. She had a two bedroom apartment and had beds in both. She explained it as her and her boyfriend lived there when they both went to school together. They had broken up and he moved back to where they were from after school. It had been a couple years since he lived there and she had a job in London. She would "run into him" when she would go home to see her family but I didn't really think much of that. He didn't have any of his stuff there or anything so I had no reason to. The only strange thing was that the phone was still in this guy's name as was the cable. She changed the cable since I was pretty much living with her and added me as able to change things on it. So one time, near Christmas she mentions that this dude is coming down because he has to get his school records and is staying the night in his old room. I flipped out, but as was said here, she was asking for approval, not permission. He stayed the night and she managed to even give me a call that night to ease my fears. So, some time goes by and we are still pretty much living together except when she'd go home to see her family for a weekend or two a month. One day, I head there in the morning (she worked nights) and was going to surprise her, I use my key and let myself in just as the answering machine comes on and it's this dude and the message went something like this, "Hey honey, it's been a long couple of weeks, can't wait to see you this weekend for our 7th anniversary" I got out of there, left the key, left the place unlocked and called and soon as I got home and left a message that started, "Hey honey, it's been a long couple weeks" in question form. Then I ranted and raved like a lunatic for a couple minutes about her wasting almost two years of my life. My advice, nothing good can come from this situation, get out. Well I shouldn't say nothing good, the sex was fantastic. This chick was sex crazed, but I guess that was was all I was there for, sex, and to have a dude around the apartment. __________________ agggghhhhhh!!!