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Originally Posted by flylock shox
Maybe you gals should start a CP Men/Dating Discussion Thread. As you can see from the above, this site is loaded with people who give great practical advice.
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Anyway I still haven't seen much advice, so I'll give you the standard pitch: never mind what YOU should say, just keep her talking and actually listen.
Too many guys are worried about trying to impress a woman - if she's talking to you, she already is half-way there, you just have to keep from screwing up and acting like every other self-important clown she's had to put up with. Comment on her clothing, her hair (especially if it's different, women love hearing that their hair looks good because #1 they worry about their hair obsessively and #2 it shows that you are interested in her enough to notice); ask her just about anything as long as its not too personal but is still relevant - what's her favorite sport, who does she admire, ask her to sing her favorite song - anything goes, really.
If she asks you questions, answer, but don't go off too long on how awesome you are - and for that matter, don't denigrate yourself either. Just act like a regular human being and you'll be fine, constrain yourself from trying to be too clever or cool and you can't go far wrong.