this is a very difficult situation to be in.
Having gone from really good friends to b/f and g/f before the only advice i'll give is that if you don't think you can give it a real serious shot then don't bother.
in my experience we lasted a couple of years but now i really look back on it and regret it because a 20 year friendship would have been better than a 2 year relationship.
that being said i am not sorry i gave it a try. just with hindsight knowing it wouldn't work out (and that we're not friends after) it is a let down because i lost a friend and a g/f.
good luck though. one thing i wouldn't do is only continue to be friends with her to try and hook up romantically. if you only want a romantic relationship don't cheapen your friendship by maintaining it for the sole purpose of furthering your own wants.
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