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Originally Posted by foofighter15
Well you are pretty freaking deep in the friend zone.
This is gonna sound bad, but maybe next time you two are drunk have a drunk talk. Or even if you're drunk enough make a move? I dunno. It seems low, but I think you can understand the theory behind it.
But I think the real question you need to ask yourself is: Do you want to be with her bad enough its worth the risk of putting the friendship in danger. Because if she does decline its going to be awkward for a bit.
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The wrong thing to do is to make any kind of move when you're drunk. That approach turns you into just another sex craved drunk guy. What you have to do is make her see you in another way. It's a tough thing to do, moving from the friend zone to something romantic but it's not impossible. Put the moves on but do it in a subtle way. You almost have to approach it as if you were pursuing someone new. One of the problems of being in the friend zone, especially with someone that you're attracted to, is that you may begin to be there to her every need, it's almost as if you're doing all the work that a boyfriend should be doing without getting any. By doing so you become a wuss and most women will not feel any physical attraction to men they can control. You don't have to be an a'hole either but you have to get yourself away from being the guy they call to go shopping with, or the shoulder to cry on when another a'hole hurts them. There's nothing worse than being the guy friend that they can talk to about all their little dating problems. Get yourself away from everything that a gay friend should be doing and turn yourself into the guy she calls to go out and have fun with. Good luck man because what you want isn't easy but hey, nothing without a challenge is worth it, especially when it comes to dating.