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Wookie · 12-21-2007, 11:53 AM

I'd say you're screwed. And not in the good sense.

What to do... Hmm, couple of options.

I'd say forget the big date hoopla, saw some suggestions about going all out, dinner, etc. Honestly, she knows you, impressing her with dinner and going out isn't going to change anything other than shrink your wallet. She'd have the same answer at the end of that as right now.

I'd say your two options are.
1. Make her jealous. Not in the sense that it sounds. Just have a good time with other people. Go out with other girls, make a little less time for her, if there is any chance she's going to be interested that'll make it come out. She'll think, hmm, he's fun/cool/and I'm missing out. If not, well taht sucks. It's a pretty crappy thing to find out, but better now then... well maybe not. But you gotta go for it.

2. Just tell her. Don't be drunk, just... yeah, you get along, you can be honest with each other, why not try. Worried about ruining a friendship? Eh, if you're really good friends it should last.

Good luck.

12-21-2007, 11:53 AM	#169
Wookie Chick Magnet Join Date: Oct 2001 Exp:	I'd say you're screwed. And not in the good sense. What to do... Hmm, couple of options. I'd say forget the big date hoopla, saw some suggestions about going all out, dinner, etc. Honestly, she knows you, impressing her with dinner and going out isn't going to change anything other than shrink your wallet. She'd have the same answer at the end of that as right now. I'd say your two options are. 1. Make her jealous. Not in the sense that it sounds. Just have a good time with other people. Go out with other girls, make a little less time for her, if there is any chance she's going to be interested that'll make it come out. She'll think, hmm, he's fun/cool/and I'm missing out. If not, well taht sucks. It's a pretty crappy thing to find out, but better now then... well maybe not. But you gotta go for it. 2. Just tell her. Don't be drunk, just... yeah, you get along, you can be honest with each other, why not try. Worried about ruining a friendship? Eh, if you're really good friends it should last. Good luck.