Quote:
Originally Posted by Flames_Gimp
translation: "I'm bangin some dude"
|
That has nothing to do with it. What was complicating things was after we made out she was going back and forth between whether she was ready for a relationship or not which was confusing me and it was affecting our friendship and making us get into disagreements about how she was feeling. Finally she just told me that for now we should cool it off for now because she was too confused and she knew it was affecting me and she felt guilty and didn't like that. And the advise I got from other people was to not confuse her anymore than she already was because when women are confused they think negatively so that I should just back off for now because it might make her get turned off of me.
My cousin said a phrase that made a pretty good point. "Sometimes it's better to retreat and live to fight the battle another day". He was in a similar situation only this girl gave him alot of sex but wasn't as honest as this girl is with me. He was constantly asking her for a relationship until finally it was just too much and she told him she wasn't ready and they eventually drifted apart. That's one thing he regrets as he said had he held back a little and gave her space maybe things would have worked out in the end.