I think you need to get selfish quickly. I was like you once. Tried to escape the friend zone once and ended up wasting one of the better years of my life. When it was all said and done I was a little more bitter and quite a bit wiser.
Your feelings aren't changing and this certainly won't settle itself. It's unfair to her if you are looking for something more and she's not into it. It's unfair to you for the same reason. I think you need to legitimately consider that this friendship can't continue on this path. You either need to take it to another level or leave it behind.
I know . . . I'm cold and have no soul.
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