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Old 12-19-2007, 04:34 PM   #17
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Originally Posted by foofighter15 View Post
Oh! New Years is coming up. Ask her to be your date to a New Years party, and see if anything happens with a New Years Kiss. If sparks fly, then there you go.
Good answer.

At 12, kiss her the way you've been wanting to kiss her. She'll either take it in stride or reciprocate. If she merely takes it in stride, you've got the advantage of blaming it on alcohol. If she reciprocates, make it clear that it wasn't the alcohol.

I highly recommend against drunken confessions of love. I was chilling with a couple female friends on sunday and somehow that exact topic came up. Their concensus was that it screws up the friendship afterward, and it is extremely difficult to let the person down nicely.
If you do do it, just make sure not to push the issue. If you tell her that you're in love with her and that you want to marry her, she'll run faster than Ben Johnson after a homemade cocktail.'
If you tell her you're attracted to her in a new way, maybe she'll be interested. If she isn't, don't spend the rest of the night trying to convince her. Just drop it.
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