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Originally Posted by FireFly
Nice dig.  Perhaps I really am just voluptuous?
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Again, it's not you.
Women who genuinely are curvy or voluptuous are considered attractive by a large number of men. The problem is that there's so many insecure fat women on dating sites who don't want to check the appropriate box that most accurately describes their body type, so they select the "curvy" option instread. This in turn has resulted in men who are looking for an actual curvy girl being inundated with results of overweight women.
If your fellow females were more honest about their body types up front, then the men on dating sites wouldn't filter out "curvy". It's an unfortunate truth that "curvy" is being used a euphemism for "fat" more often than not.