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Originally Posted by Cowboy89
This whole 'curvy is hot' expression is really an invention of non-hot girls justifying their 'bigger than average' looks. In practice go to any dating website and when a woman calls herself 'curvy', or says something like 'real men like women with curves' you're talking about someone who's carrying what popular taste would call extra pounds (there's nothing wrong with this as many guys like personality features better and some prefer bigger women).
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Yup
It's also subjective to how one views themselves.
I remember awhile ago someone suggested I try online dating. Went online, three features I checked for my search was
Fit
Muscular
Thin
OMG - the amount of girls who had checked off "fit" hahaha. It was ridiculous. Made my search redundant. I wondered what I would have returned had I checked normal, or average.
But, that's coming from someone who thinks "fit" means you are on par or close to my level of fitness. Which - almost borders on obsessive.
Take one of my buddies who used to be an athlete, he's probably 20lbs overweight by my standards, considers himself an x-athlete, in shape, but not an athlete anymore. My average person, or what the majority of people that checked themselves as fit, would have been his version of fit.
It's all subjective.
Granted I request a doctors signed BMI for before I take you out! hahaha..
That said, I'm also not into really skinny chicks. They have to have some size. Went out with a Syncro girl once... That wouldn't have gone very far.