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Originally Posted by PowerPlayoffs06
And now after 5 years would you not question why the issue wasn't raised at the beginning of the relationship? Not wonder why all of a sudden it's become this big problem and if you don't stop speeding, you're facing a break-up or divorce?
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But that's the thing. After 5 years, she can talk to me about anything. She can say that I drive too fast and I need to tone it down so that she feels secure in knowing that I'll be home for dinner and not in the hospital.
What that scenario is, is an example of how people discuss an issue rather than treat it as a confrontation.
Which is exactly what our lady in question did. She spoke to her supervisor and offered a solution that worked for both of them. The supervisor accepted the solution. GREAT.
7 months later, suddenly the rug is pulled out from under her. Her solution is no longer acceptable. WTF?