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Originally Posted by OILFAN #81
"Bro's before ho's b*tches" (even if you didn't like the guy to begin with)
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Sorry, I don't agree with this at all - unless you count your female friends as "bro's" as well, that you wouldn't ditch for some bitch. Life isn't some war of the sexes where it's "my gender, right or wrong."
In reference to the original question - first off, I agree that you shouldn't have slept with this girl, regardless of how you feel about the guy. Second, I don't understand how he thinks you are a friend of his, but you don't like him - sounds to me like you have avoided confrontation with him, despite your dislike for his douchy ways. Third, the only real decision is - do you even want, in the tiniest degree, to be her friend? It doesn't sound to me like you do, but rather that you feel guilty about banging her and worried that if you dump her, she's going to tell your "buddy" about the two of you getting it on, and you'll get a bad rep among your friends because of it. Well, that ship has already sailed, so if it were me, I'd suck it up and tell him what I did, stress that you figure she has the same right to sleep around on him that he has on her, and say the only thing you feel bad about is that you didn't tell him before that he is a ######bag.