Many posters on here are thinking with their 'man brains' and assume that logic is the way to deal with women on relationship matters. For the most part women make love-life decisions with feeling and emotion rather than logic. Usually the stereotypical 'douchbag' guy is some sort of charmer (That's why despite obvious evidence of douchbaggery multiple women still want to be available to him). His charm may come in many forms: Humor, confidence, looks, etc. The reason why women stick with the ######bag after the charm has rubbed off is because either A) They lack the self-essteem to do something about being used. B) They're too weak or stupid to realize that their reasons for being attracted to him are harmful in the long-run, or C) In some way when they're around that guy they feel good in some way that emotionally outweighs how badly he treats them.
None of those options have anything to do with you and none of your logic will make a difference. Considering that this girl isn't exactly your best friend or even a good friend I'd be more worried about your need to be free of this hassle and just show her the tough love for your sake.
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